The Winner Of life

      One day, two men approached a bookseller friend to buy books and magazines. The seller turned out to be poorly served and it looks disrespectful. The first person to feel not satisfied, accept such service. Oddly
enough, the second still enjoy, even being polite to the seller. Then the first man asked his friend, ”Hei, Why would you be polite to the salesperson who sucks”

His friend replied, " Why must I allow him to determine the way We act, we are the decider for our lives, and not someone else."

“ But he is serving us with crappy ” bemused people first. He was still annoyed.

“Yes, that's him problem, he would like to bad mood, not polite, serve with the bad, and the other, no relation to us. If we were to be affected, it means we let him set up and affect our lives , that we know, we determine our own life. “

        In essence, our actions are often influenced by the actions of others to us. If they did a bad thing, we will reward with the things even worse. If they're disrespectful, we will be more disrespectful again. If other people stingy towards us, we initially quixotic suddenly so in such a cheapskate when having to deal with that person.

    Try to think about. Why our actions must be influenced by someone else? Why to do only good we must wait treated well by others first? Keep mood. Don ' t let bad attitude others to us determines the way we act! Choose to remain do good though receive thing is not good.

"Winner of life" is one that stays cool in hot, which is still sweet in a very bitter, which still feel small although it has been great, and remain calm in the midst of the most severe storms.